away (adv) to or at a distance from a particular place, person, or thing;
into an appropriate place storage or safekeeping

a way (n) a method, style, or manner of doing something

Word Well Wednesday explores the intricacies of the English language including the dualities of pronunciation, contrast of meanings and similarities in appearance.  Today’s words are distinguished by one little space.

Going away on a trip is typically glorious!  It is an escape from everyday routines and provides us with a glimpse into lifestyle options – even if it is for a short period of time.  That’s the key descriptive of away – it is an escape.  Getting out of here, going on a vacation, leaving on a jet plane, no matter how you describe the object of the away, it’s an escape from what is happening here and now.  I know when I go on vacation, the break in the routine is welcome with new and fresh experiences. The away could also indicate fleeing in haste.  My heart races just a little bit faster even when I write those words.  There’s an urgency or panic to move quickly from the situation at hand; a different kind of escape.

When I add one little, tiny space between the “a” and “way”, suddenly there is a whole new perspective.  My escape has unexpectedly become an approach or a path going a definitive direction.  A way describes a positive movement towards resolution.  Funny how a little space can make all the difference in intent. 

Isn’t that the same in everyday encounters?  We have a conflict with a co-worker.  We’re either going to go away from the situation or we’re going to find a way to resolve. The kiddos’ school is looking for volunteers.  We’re either running far away or finding a way to fit one more task into our schedule.  A friend needs a helping hand.  We’re either going to pitch-in by getting them away for relief or we’ll find a way to constructively support their need.

What’s your day looking like?  Do you need to get away or have you found a way?